A lot of guys would probably answer the title of this blog post with a resound yes. We are all more that than welcome to come up with our own self-image. The problem is in many cases there is a huge difference between who you really are and who we think we are.
Make no mistake about it, most red-blooded American males would tell you that they have the sex hookup game down cold. That’s what they will tell you. However, if you put them in a situation where they could actually hookup with an anonymous stranger in their local area, most of them would freak out. Most of them would actually shut up and wouldn’t know what to do.
It’s not like they don’t know what to do physically or sexually, they just don’t know what to do in terms of the social situation. They wouldn’t know how to act. They wouldn’t know how to respond. They wouldn’t know how to react. Keep this in mind when trying to answer posed by this blog post.
You might think that you’re a Don Juan or Casanova chick magnet that knows how to bang all sorts of chicks in all sorts of situations and all sorts of contexts. While you’re more than welcome to think that, you need to also face up to reality. There is no such thing as a guy that is such a stud that you can drop him into any kind of situation and he will hook up like a machine. It just doesn’t work that way.
You have to make sure you have the right mindset when you are looking for a free sex hook up. You have to have a clear idea as to what to expect and how to respond, otherwise you’re going to end up performing the same way as most of the guys that find themselves in such situations perform. How is that? Terribly.